One mistake many divorcing people make is to give the ex-spouse more than their share of the assets in an effort to make the divorce go smoother, more amiably, quicker, or all of the above. This is something that can cause you great regret later. It may seem like anything would be better [...]
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Just like a new couple should not expect to change each other, you should not attribute new behaviors to your ex-spouse. If she didn’t actively parent in the past, she probably won’t start now. If he refused to let your son have friends over in the past, he could continue that behavior.
When it comes to children’s placement, the schedule is so crucial to their future well-being. This is especially true with young children. It should not be purely about equality and fairness to the ex-spouse. The children are not a commodity to be split like your financial assets. Consider that a “fair,” equal [...] The second trap that many people fall into is rushing the divorce process. It’s common to wish to move through the divorce as quickly as possible. Unfortunately this can lead people to rationalize making decisions that aren’t optimal or giving in to the wishes of the spouse. It’s good to compromise, but there’s [...] In the next few posts we will address some common emotional issues that get in the way of acting rationally during a divorce. One misconception people going through a divorce often have is that the terms of the divorce can be changed later if things don’t work out for the best. This is [...] |
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